Does evolving me tending towards an ideal? Does it imply to give up one’s essence and to long for an image of perfection? Or, again, does it mean polishing one’s roughness to the point of becoming all alike? Needless to say, we have a completely different view!
According to Jon Kabat-Zinn meditation is not an instrument to go anywhere, it is rather a way to understand where one is starting from...and we agree with him!
You may think you have a lot or little talent, but the real question is: “Are you making the most out of the talents you have?” Here, some useful tools.
Metaphorically, the killer is a hole that stands between you and your goal of development, your leap in quality. The empowerment approach is not to fill the hole but to make it despite the hole.